A LESBIAN LOVE STORY

Hmmm. What can I say? This blog is about whatever I feel and think at the time that I post..YOu'll hear frequent mention of the love of my life. I call her Baby. She's my soulmate, and we've been together since May '96!! Still loving her more and more everyday. We host an "after dark" internet radio show called "On Your Mind" We're on Monday through Friday at 11:00 pm pacific time. Our radio address is: www.alltalkradio.net/onyourmind/

Saturday, July 22, 2006

Saturday Night Movies and Stuff!

Hey guys!!! How's it been hanging? Baby and I went to see "Lady In the Water" earlier.. M. Knight was actually in this one! I think he should be in more of his films. Ron Howard's daughter starred in it as a "Narf"..you'll understand if you go see it.. But, like most M. Knight films, it takes a certain palate..
We're watching "My Baby's Daddy" on DVD right now. So far, SOOOO FUNNY!!! Michael Imperioli from "Sopranos' is in this. He's pretty good in a comedic capacity!
Anyway..not much going on..just enjoying "movie night" with Baby.. ;-)
love and hugs all!
schree`

Wednesday, July 12, 2006

My mom was out here!!

Hey guys!! I'm hanging out watching "cops'..my mom just left today and she's flying all day.. I miss her so much already!! I only get to see her twice a year so... we talk all the time, but, to get that mom hug means everything to me..She took over my radio show for two nights. LOL she loved it! I'm tired as all hell, but, I"m going to try to stay awake until after the show. I don't like to sleep while mom's flying.. so, i'll probably be blogging like a nutcase today

Monday, June 19, 2006

Juneteenth

Juneteenth is the oldest known celebration commemorating the ending of slavery in the United States. Dating back to 1865, it was on June 19th that the Union soldiers, led by Major General Gordon Granger, landed at Galveston, Texas with news that the war had ended and that the enslaved were now free. Note that this was two and a half years after President Lincoln’s Emancipation Proclamation - which had become official January 1, 1863. The Emancipation Proclamation had little impact on the Texans due to the minimal number of Union troops to enforce the new Executive order. However, with the surrender of General Lee in April of 1865, and the arrival of General Granger’s regiment, the forces were finally strong enough to influence and overcome the resistance.
Later attempts to explain this two and a half year delay in the receipt of this important news have yielded several versions that have been handed down through the years. Often told is the story of a messenger who was murdered on his way to Texas with the news of freedom. Another, is that the news was deliberately withheld by the enslavers to maintain the labor force on the plantations. And still another, is that federal troops actually waited for the slave owners to reap the benefits of one last cotton harvest before going to Texas to enforce the Emancipation Proclamation. All or none of them could be true. For whatever the reason, conditions in Texas remained status quo well beyond what was statutory.
General Order Number 3
One of General Granger’s first orders of business was to read to the people of Texas, General Order Number 3 which began most significantly with:
"The people of Texas are informed that in accordance with a Proclamation from the Executive of the United States, all slaves are free. This involves an absolute equality of rights and rights of property between former masters and slaves, and the connection heretofore existing between them becomes that between employer and free laborer."
The reactions to this profound news ranged from pure shock to immediate jubilation. While many lingered to learn of this new employer to employee relationship, many left before these offers were completely off the lips of their former 'masters' - attesting to the varying conditions on the plantations and the realization of freedom. Even with nowhere to go, many felt that leaving the plantation would be their first grasp of freedom. North was a logical destination and for many it represented true freedom, while the desire to reach family members in neighboring states drove the some into Louisiana, Arkansas and Oklahoma. Settling into these new areas as free men and women brought on new realities and the challenges of establishing a heretofore non-existent status for black people in America. Recounting the memories of that great day in June of 1865 and its festivities would serve as motivation as well as a release from the growing pressures encountered in their new territory. The celebration of June 19th was coined "Juneteenth" and grew with more participation from descendants. The Juneteenth celebration was a time for reassuring each other, for praying and for gathering remaining family members. Juneteenth continued to be highly revered in Texas decades later, with many former slaves and descendants making an annual pilgrimage back to Galveston on this date.
Juneteenth Festivities and Food
A range of activities were provided to entertain the masses, many of which continue in tradition today. Rodeos, fishing, barbecuing and baseball are just a few of the typical Juneteenth activities you may witness today. Juneteenth almost always focused on education and self improvement. Thus often guest speakers are brought in and the elders are called upon to recount the events of the past. Prayer services were also a major part of these celebrations.
Certain foods became popular and subsequently synonymous with Juneteenth celebrations such as strawberry soda-pop. More traditional and just as popular was the barbecuing, through which Juneteenth participants could share in the spirit and aromas that their ancestors - the newly emancipated African Americans, would have experienced during their ceremonies. Hence, the barbecue pit is often established as the center of attention at Juneteenth celebrations.
Food was abundant because everyone prepared a special dish. Meats such as lamb, pork and beef which not available everyday were brought on this special occasion. A true Juneteenth celebrations left visitors well satisfied and with enough conversation to last until the next.
Dress was also an important element in early Juneteenth customs and is often still taken seriously, particularly by the direct descendants who can make the connection to this tradition's roots. During slavery there were laws on the books in many areas that prohibited or limited the dressing of the enslaved. During the initial days of the emancipation celebrations, there are accounts of former slaves tossing their ragged garments into the creeks and rivers to adorn clothing taken from the plantations belonging to their former 'masters'.
Juneteenth and Society
In the early years, little interest existed outside the African American community in participation in the celebrations. In some cases, there was outwardly exhibited resistance by barring the use of public property for the festivities. Most of the festivities found themselves out in rural areas around rivers and creeks that could provide for additional activities such as fishing, horseback riding and barbecues. Often the church grounds was the site for such activities. Eventually, as African Americans became land owners, land was donated and dedicated for these festivities. One of the earliest documented land purchases in the name of Juneteenth was organized by Rev. Jack Yates. This fund-raising effort yielded $1000 and the purchase of Emancipation Park in Houston, Texas. In Mexia, the local Juneteenth organization purchased Booker T. Washington Park, which had become the Juneteenth celebration site in 1898. There are accounts of Juneteenth activities being interrupted and halted by white landowners demanding that their laborers return to work. However, it seems most allowed their workers the day off and some even made donations of food and money. For decades these annual celebrations flourished, growing continuously with each passing year. In Booker T. Washington Park, as many as 20,000 African Americans once flowed through during the course of a week, making the celebration one of the state’s largest.
Juneteenth Celebrations Decline
Economic and cultural forces provided for a decline in Juneteenth activities and participants beginning in the early 1900’s. Classroom and textbook education in lieu of traditional home and family-taught practices stifled the interest of the youth due to less emphasis and detail on the activities of former slaves. Classroom text books proclaimed Lincoln’s Emancipation Proclamation of January 1, 1863 as the date signaling the ending of slavery - and little or nothing on the impact of General Granger’s arrival on June 19th.
The Depression forced many people off the farms and into the cities to find work. In these urban environments, employers were less eager to grant leaves to celebrate this date. Thus, unless June 19th fell on a weekend or holiday, there were very few participants available. July 4th was the already established Independence holiday and a rise in patriotism steered more toward this celebration.
Resurgence
The Civil Rights movement of the 50’s and 60’s yielded both positive and negative results for the Juneteenth celebrations. While it pulled many of the African American youth away and into the struggle for racial equality, many linked these struggles to the historical struggles of their ancestors. This was evidenced by student demonstrators involved in the Atlanta civil rights campaign in the early 1960’s, whom wore Juneteenth freedom buttons. Again in 1968, Juneteenth received another strong resurgence through Poor Peoples March to Washington D.C.. Rev. Ralph Abernathy’s call for people of all races, creeds, economic levels and professions to come to Washington to show support for the poor. Many of these attendees returned home and initiated Juneteenth celebrations in areas previously absent of such activity. In fact, two of the largest Juneteenth celebrations founded after this March are now held in Milwaukee and Minneapolis.
Texas Blazes the Trail
On January 1, 1980, Juneteenth became an official state holiday through the efforts of Al Edwards, an African American state legislator. The successful passage of this bill marked Juneteenth as the first emancipation celebration granted official state recognition. Representative Edwards has since actively sought to spread the observance of Juneteenth all across America.
Juneteenth In Modern Times
Throughout the 80’s and 90’s Juneteenth has continued to enjoy a growing and healthy interest from communities and organizations throughout the country. Institutions such as the Smithsonian, the Henry Ford Museum and others have begun sponsoring Juneteenth-centered activities. In recent years, a number of National Juneteenth Organizations have arisen to take their place along side older organizations - all with the mission to promote and cultivate knowledge and appreciation of African American history and culture.
Juneteenth today, celebrates African American freedom while encouraging self-development and respect for all cultures. As it takes on a more national and even global perspective, the events of 1865 in Texas are not forgotten, for all of the roots tie back to this fertile soil from which a national day of pride is growing. The future of Juneteenth looks bright as the number of cities and states come on board and form local committees and organizations to coordinate the activities. Communication and networking is vital. A sharing of lessons learned throughout all organizations will help expedite this growth while minimizing waste and risks. The Juneteenth.com website can play a vital role in these efforts. Thus, it is important to communicate its existence to one and all. Contact your local Juneteenth organizer if you do not see them listed within and let them know about this site. There is no cost for organizations to post their Juneteenth festivities at the website.
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Sunday, June 18, 2006

A nice sunset...

Hey everybody!! Happy Fathers' Day to all you dads out there.. I know I'm a little late.. :-)
Baby and I are watching "My Fair Brady" right now. I swear that Chris knight is a pain in the ass to that girl.. I mean damn! Reminds me of why I left men alone LOLOL it seems like she's one big head game to him. I think that she's shed more tears on that show than I've ever shed in my entire relationship with Baby.. As a matter of fact, we don't do the whole head game let me try to make you cry thing..
I don't know why I'm in such a colorful mood :-) Hey! I finally figured out how to upload pics in my post! I've learned a lot hanging out at myspace.. anyway guys.. I should check up on y'all!!
xoxoxoxoxo
P.S. that pic is up at delights.. you guys know my fav place away from the city.. LOVES IT!!!

Sunday, May 14, 2006

Happy Mother's Day everybody!!!

Happy Mother's Day everybody!! I hope you're all enjoying yourselves and soaking up all the love :-)..

I have company in town from back east, which I'm excited about! I think I've told you guys about one of my oldest friends Marc.. We've known each other for like ever. He's out here for a week and he just got here last night so....Should be a lot of fun! ;-) He and Baby are watching "Sopranos" right nowa..I'm blogging so that I don't run my mouth through the whole show.. See, I'll watch it again and again. That's what I do with my shows.. Plus, when I'm blogging, I don't really hear the television.. Just bits and pieces you know?
We've gotten into that show "Big Love"..LOL That's a great show! I just keep rememering that one guy as "Chet" in "Weird Science"..."You spit in this?" haha! That was a great line!
It went up to 100 degrees out here today you guys!! It's 98 now, so, I think it's safe to say that we're on the downslope.. I so want to go out and play ball, but, it's way too hot out there..even still!!

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ALL THE MOM'S OUT THERE!!! I hope you enjoyed your day.. Back home, there's this kool Mother's Day Parade, and we went every year..They had marching bands, bells and whistles..All for the moms.. makes me sad that I wasn't there to take my mom.. but, she was okay.. Baby and I both sent her a card, and I sent her a ceramic angel.. :-) I thought about sending flowers, but, that's so cliche' and plus, my dad died 2 years ago, and I didn't want to remind her in any way of a funeral, or anything.. She really liked her angel..she likes trinkets like dolls and angels and stuff like that..

Well, I feel like getting all caught up with everybody..Damn! It's been a long time since I've checked up on my peeps over here!!

xoxoxoxoxo

Saturday, April 29, 2006

South Parking...

Hey everybody! I haven't been over here in like forever! I started a blog at myspace and I've been pretty caught up getting established. So, how have you guys been? If you want to come and visit my myspace, my url is www.myspace.com/schreetina ..that should work..

OMG I just turned South Park on..LOL This show is wicked funny! I rarely watch it, but, when I do, I crack up! SMH

I'm gonna go and browse for a while...here at blogger that is.. :-)

xoxoxoxo

Thursday, March 30, 2006

Refer Madness.

Hey peeps! I'm hanging out watching "Refer Madness"! This shit is too funny.. My engineer Chris lent the dvd to me. He said that I just HAD to see it.. I've had it over a week, and I'm just getting around to sitting down to watch it.. Not bad.. Looks like a good musical. Movies and plays about weed are entertaining. Especially this one! Then again, Napoleon Dynamite has quickly become one of my favorite movies, so, I don't know what the hell is wrong with me. ;-)

So, how have you guys been? I've been up to the same old same o..Work, working out, and being a good wife to Baby... Oh, and let us n ot forget this glowing box.. Where would we be without it?

xoxoxoxo